Touch Yourself Right
It doesn't have to be about sex!!!
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How you touch yourself with curiosity, care, and love can inspire how you touch the world- Simran Sethi.
Ever wondered how everything in the world is touching you and you're not touching yourself 😂.
Touch signals safety and trust, it soothes. Linger with the feeling as long as you like exploring other possible soothing gestures that work for you; touching your neck, touching your cheek, making circles on the top of your hand, putting a hand on your abdomen, or, crossing your arms and giving yourself a gentle squeeze. This not only helps relax the body it also opens you up to possible pleasurable spots.
I'm writing this mail with one hardened nipple because it keeps itching me,am I supposed to wear gloves before I want to scratch my nipple😂.
Does it feel good? Yes!!!
Do I feel shame or guilt for scratching my itching nipple? No!!!
Touch yourself to get your breast/testicular examinations done. Check out for those lumps.
Touching yourself shouldn’t feel scary or bad, although it might because of silly societal norms.
If touching yourself sexually isn't your thing, it's fine. Besides there are people who don't feel pleasure from sexual touches even from a partner.
If touching yourself sexually is your thing,it's also very fine. There are cases of people suffering from painful penetration, there's the distance factor etc.
Different strokes for different people. People exhibit sexual behaviours based on their sexual values.
Decreased sexual sensitivity
Disrupts daily activities
Affects responsibilities and relationships when it gets extreme and compulsive. It's advisable to visit a clinic when the above listed signs are seen or when the frequency of masturbating seems to be out of control.
In conclusion,I will give you 4 ways you may be touching yourself wrong.
Use of pornography. Porn is false and it gives an unhealthy view of sex and you don't want to do that to your sexual life. Viewing pornography to sexually arouse yourself ISN'T a good place to be,I know almost everyone who masturbates does it with the help of pornography,it just clearly shows that there's something wrong and you need to seek help.
Touching yourself with negative emotions(fear,guilt,shame)is the same as sexually abusing yourself. If you have to feel guilty or shameful about touching yourself after the act,then you’ve just finished disrespecting your body.
If it create a gap between your partner and yourself then you're not touching yourself right. Because you should walk your partner through a journey you've walked alone.
If it impacts negatively on the productivity of other aspect of your life,where you can't show up at your best in places where your expertise is needed.
If you can relate to anyone out of the 4 points listed above,it clearly means that you've been touching yourself in the wrong ways and it's high time you sought for help.
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